In a democracy, the power to choose our leaders is a privilege—and a responsibility. Yet, when the policies we support or the leaders we elect fail, many of us are quick to point fingers at others. It’s an uncomfortable truth: we often refuse to acknowledge our role in the failures we voted for.
Why is it easier to blame others? One reason is cognitive dissonance. Admitting that our choices led to negative outcomes is psychologically painful. It forces us to confront the idea that we were wrong—a blow to our ego and self-perception. Instead, we rationalise our decisions and shift the blame onto those who didn’t vote as we did, or onto the politicians themselves, as if we had no part in their rise to power.
Another factor is the tribal nature of modern politics. We’ve become so entrenched in partisan identities that admitting fault feels like betraying our “side.” It’s easier to demonise the opposition or the system itself than to question our own judgment.
But here’s the real issue: this refusal to take responsibility erodes the very foundation of democracy. If we don’t hold ourselves accountable, we can’t hold our leaders accountable either. The cycle of blame-shifting perpetuates bad governance because it absolves both the electorate and elected officials from facing the consequences of their actions.
It’s time for a change. We must start owning our votes and the outcomes they produce. Instead of deflecting blame, let’s engage in honest self-reflection. What did we overlook? How can we make better choices in the future? Democracy isn’t just about winning—it’s about learning, evolving, and, most importantly, taking responsibility.
Let’s discuss: How often do we shift the blame for political failures, and what can we do to foster a culture of accountability?